Tri-State MSBL Holds Father/SonTournament

by John DeBenedictis, President, Tri-State 48+/55+ MSBL

Holiday 2008

Broadway-Bound Brewers Win Father/Son Tourney

Labor Day Weekend, 2008---The Tri-State 48+/55+ Senior Baseball League, LLC held its annual Father/Son tournament over the Labor Day weekend. The field for the popular tournament swelled to eight teams this year, with more than 135 players. This total included four wives and ten daughters. The youngest son was 13 years old.

Steve Lopes of the South Jersey Indians in the Tri-State MSBL started the tournament in 2005. We pattern the event after the MSBL National events including all established rules.

Front, left to right: Dane Walter, D.J. Hyatt, Kevin Lagowski, Matt Trate, Nick Morales
Back, l to r: Martin Walter, Duane Hyatt, Ken Lagowski, Ken Bilicke, Bert Talley, Chris Trate, Joe Morales

The Broadway-Bound Brewers of the Delaware 30+ MSBL managed by Ken Lagowski (League President) entered the field this year and went unbeaten to claim the championship. The Brewers disposed of the Fein’s (a team made up almost entirely of immediate family members of Daryl Fein (Manager of the league champion Langhorne Phillies) by an 8-1 score to move into the final round.

The Brewer’s outlasted the Barsky’s (Managed by Jerry Barsky) by an 8-5 score in the semi-final encounter. Their opponents in the championship game were the Abington Dodgers (Managed by Jack Galante). The Dodgers beat the Mariners (Managed by John DeBenedictis) 12-3 and BuxMont (Managed by Joe Gabel) by 20-9.

In the championship game, the Brewers quickly jumped out to a 3-0 lead in the top of the  first inning on five consecutive singles.  The Dodgers answered in the bottom of the second narrowing the gap to 3-2 on a two-run single by Jack Galante.   The game remained that way until the Brewers scored 3 more runs with 2 outs in the fifth.  The big blow was Nick Morales' 2-run triple.  He subsequently scored on Dane Walter's single. The Brewers broke the game wide open by adding 2 in the seventh and 2 more in the ninth to account for the 10-2 final.  Brewer pitchers Matt Trate and Duane Hyatt held the Dodgers at bay from the second inning on while Flaco Santiago went the route for the Dodgers.  Joe Morales and Chris Trate had 3 hits each for the Brewers while Jack Galante, Zach Galante, and Shea Kelly had 2 hits apiece for the Dodgers.

Other preliminary action saw the BuxMont team win their first game over the Pool team by a 10-7 margin, holding on after building a 10-2 lead. The Mariners dropped their two games by 12-3 (Abington Dodgers) and 24-3 (Pool Team). The Fein’s also lost twice by 8-1 (Brewers) and 13-9 (South Jersey Indians) scores.

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The Reviews Are In

Based on feedback from individual participants, the tournament was a huge success and we would encourage other MSBL leagues to do the same. Excerpts from some thank-you notes follow:

Thanks again for putting together the Father Son/Daughter tournament. I can't tell you how much fun we had and my kids actually have a different attitude toward me after that. It was a wonderful thing you did. Can't wait to do it again!...........Ken Jacoby

First off, thank you for all your efforts in organizing and managing the Father Son tournament. After our 2nd game, my most prevalent question to every player was: "Did you have fun playing baseball?" The resounding answer was "yes."  To me that is all that mattered. I watched fathers play baseball with their kids, talking baseball with their kids, supporting their kids, and it was really great to see. To me, the tournament was a huge success…….Joe Gabel

I can only concur 100% on all fronts. I've been playing baseball at all sorts of levels for the past 45 years and to play alongside my son was the greatest thrill I've ever had……Ken Lagowski

I would also like to add how much Ross and I enjoyed the weekend. I've been encouraging Ross to play baseball since he was 5 and the last few years he has lost some interest.  He loves playing the game but in today's world if your kid isn't playing ball in some highly competitive league all year round he is not likely to be playing on the local school team. That goes for most sports. There was a day when you played during the season because it was fun and played other sports (or goofed off) with your friends the rest of the year. That's what this weekend reminded me of.  Putting together a bunch a friends and having fun. Thanks for the opportunity to play side by side with him.  As said before it was a thrill.  And for me a very proud moment to see him playing hard and enjoying the game. I also want to say how much I enjoyed meeting all the other sons and daughters.  What a great bunch. All the dads should be proud………..Grady Ragsdale

Thanks for including me in this past weekend's tournament. I enjoyed meeting more of your family, and it was a lot of fun to play ball with so many nice people, and so many kids of all ages…….Skip Probst

You already know how I feel about this father-son event, PRICELESS! ……………. I want to make it very clear to you that you've definitely done something for the benefit of mankind. With this event, you've supplied an opportunity for many family and friends to have fun and moments that will be remembered for the rest of their (our) lives. What a living legacy you've created. BRAVO! Thank you so very much,…….Ed Tom

I want to also thank you and Steve for putting on this tournament. You gave me the opportunity to play on a team, for the first time, with both of my sons and my son in law. It was fantastic. My wife and future daughter-in-law were there taking pictures, which we will treasure. We can't wait to do it again next year………………Gary Adams

I, for one, appreciate everything you do for the league. I especially enjoyed the Father-Son tournament last weekend--my son and I had a blast………..Bruce Kelley

My sons and I had a great time and my grandson and granddaughter had a great time at the park.  We look forward to next year…………Paul Nichol

My daughter and I will remember this weekend for a long time. Not only did we get to play some baseball together on the same team, but Joe batted all of the families sequentially in the batting order. So, many of us also had the added fun of being on the base paths at the same time. My thanks to all who participated in making this happen. What a GREAT event!!!................Chuck Resnick

My son Mark and daughter Jill (first time playing hardball for Jill) had a great time, and the pool team worked out well I thought.  I've been playing on the same team in the Delco 28+ with Mark for the past two years, and frankly nothing is more fun than that. Not to mention that he is beginning to appreciate how hard a game this really is, and what kind of shape you have to stay in if you want to do it well……….Ron Surkin

My daughters have been following me around baseball fields their entire lives and have always wanted to participate with and rib dad when he doesn't "use two hands." This weekend was the first time we had that privilege to play together with other great families………….Jim Toth

 

Chuck Drummond at bat.

 
 

Ilyse Resnick bunting

 
 

Ilyse Resnick rounding third; third base coach is Mike Levin Jr.

 
 

Paige Jacoby at bat.

 
   

Pete Jacoby at bat

 
 

Amanda Toth at bat

 

The Genesis of A Tournament

The original spark that eventually led to the Tri-State 48+/55+ Senior Baseball League, LLC putting
together a Father Son tournament came from MSBL, when Val Lewis championed the establishment
of a Father Son tournament during the MSBL World Series  in Phoenix, Arizona. John DeBenedictis, president of the Tri-State league, entered Father-Son teams in Phoenix for several years.

Highlights of those years were many, he says. One was playing with his nephews and even an older brother who had very little experience in the game.

Another was the opportunity to play with Dick Fitzgerald ("the best 50+ pitcher I ever faced," says DeBenedictis) and his very gentlemanly and talented son Jon.

Many Tri-State players still participate in the Father Son tournaments in Phoenix.

It was Steve Lopes, manager of the South Jersey Indians (who won back-to-back championships in the Tri-State league) who decided to start a local Father Son tournment, even though he only had two teams in 2005. From that modest start and through word of mouth, the tournament expanded each year and the league got behind it in 2007. In 2008, the tournament grew to eight teams and two divisions, including one team from another league and one team that had no manager and was designated as the "Pool" team. The league organized them and some players stepped up at game time to do the managing.

Lopes, DeBenedictis et al patterned their Father-Son tournament after established MSBL rules and protocol. "We do not use it as a revenue generating event. The fields are donated and each team collects from the players whatever is required to pay the umpire each game. Our minimum age is 13 years and we encourage females to participate. Females and 13 year old boys are allowed to use metal bats. All others use wooden," explained DeBenedictis.

Anyone with questions or needing advice on planning and holding such an event can feel free to contact John DeBenedictis via email at mailto:johnadebenedicts@verizon.net
 

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